Hello,

I am a thirty-six year old woman seeking a gay couple to co-create and co-parent a child with. I am well-educated, financially stable and healthy- mentally, physically and spiritually. For a variety of very un-original reasons, I find myself single with my biological clock ticking louder each day. I am weary of the dating scene and have accepted the fact that I will likely not find Mr. Right in time to have a child while I am still young and healthy. So, I am seeking a loving, stable couple who is ready to father a child.

I don't envision this as a surrogate or open adoption arrangement, but rather a co-parenting arrangement in which, at least for the first few years of the child's life, we would live together and parent the child as a team. Down the road, as the child's biological parents, we would arrive at a mutually beneficial custody arrangement.

I am seeking a couple (of any race/ethnicity) that is well-educated, mature, politically left leaning, financially stable, emotionally healthy, loving, nurturing and settled in Los Angeles. Of course, there are many other qualities, both tangible and intangible, that I am seeking. If this sounds like a viable and desireable option for you, please contact me at omshanti898@gmail.com. and we can begin to learn more about each other.

Thank you. Peace and blessings.

I am a gay man who used to work in childcare and I've seen many happy families. Now, I'm working in the medical field as a surgical technologist and looking to help women start families of their own.

Since talking to my lesbian friends it seems it is difficult to find a gay man who is willing to donate.

I am a sensitive, thoughtful, passionate man who has a good sense of humor. I love politics, studing religion, gardening and learning. I am in great health and tested STD free 4-3-09. I've been in a monogamous relationship with my husband for 7 years. He supports my efforts to help a woman or couple start a family. I'm excelling in my new career and love every minute of it. Raising children is a blessing but it is not for me. I have no wishes to co-parent, but if you wish for me to be a part of your child's life, I'm willing to be a known donor for medical history etc. I live in Minneapolis MN. Please contact me if you'd like to know more.

For fourteen years, I have been a “big brother”/mentor to a young man, now 18, who was raised by two lesbian moms and just left for college. He has forever changed and enriched my life.

I welcome the opportunity to be a mentor again, this time as a known sperm donor for a lesbian or lesbian couple that wants their child to have an on-going relationship with the male donor. My dream is to help bring another being into this world and be, at the mother’s discretion, a loving male presence in a child’s life. I am looking to play an "uncle" role, not that of a co-parent. As a known donor, in accordance with a California law that protects sperm donors and recipients, I would ship sperm through my doctor’s office to make ensure the mother controls all legal rights and responsibilities.

In my 40’s, 5’10’’, highly responsible, I am in excellent health, HIV neg., with high fertility numbers, accomplished, educated (Masters), athletic, and descend from two loving and long-lived Spanish families.  I reside in SF (for 20 years), work as a partner in a business strategy firm, have a steady boyfriend, live a full and interesting life, and possess a balance of strength and sensitivity, which kids seem to appreciate.

Ideally, I would like to be a mentor for a child as well as share my family’s good genes. I am respectful of others boundaries, and do not want to be involved in any of the parental decision-making.

 If you live in the San Francisco Bay area, you can contact me, Joe, at gayknowndonor@gmail.com  Or through my blog at: http://gayknowndonor.blogspot.com/

Whew! Well, I've never placed an ad like this before, but here goes! I am a 39 year old gay man that has dreamt of being a dad for as long as I've known I was gay LOL. To many it may seem that the two are incongruous, but then again I never really did fit any of the typical stereotypes. Ultimately I am looking for a family of my own to share with a woman who feels like I do, and without losing my gay identity. I guess I envision a lesbian or lesbian couple first, but I am staying open minded.

I seek a coparent arrangement because I feel a child deserves both a Mom and Dad if possible. I have a big heart and have a lot of love to give, and that includes giving some to my future baby's Momma (again let me say that I am G-A-Y honey, hahaha!) I could never be in a situation where I feel cold and disconnected to the little one's Mommy. It's my job to be a good Daddy, and that means being a good guy to Mom as well!! I have a really great family! They're all emarkable actually...and they all would be beyond thrilled to welcome our new little one!!

I am in a 10 year relationship with a wonderful man. We share our home, our families, have a business together, and share our past, present, and future. We are excited about the prospect of enlarging our family of two, but I am really the one that feels the strongest calling to Fatherhood.

In this day and age of online instant gratification, it's hard to slow down and be patient and take the time to find the right person for this unique parenting partnership. I don't really know what to expect, and I don't really know exactly what I am looking for, but I hope that I will have the wisdom to know it when I find it :)

I'm interested in hearing from healthy, down to earth women of childbearing age who are well adjusted to life and have a deep seated desire to have a loving family with a man who wants that too. I have had some great responses here, but unfortunately they have all come from out of my area. I'm looking to be as much a part of my child's life as possible, so I am most interested in hearing from someone local to the central NJ or NYC area. I guess if you feel like you "need" a child but not baby's Dad around, then we probably aren't what each other is looking for, but best of luck to you anyway.

If anyone reading this has any suggestions for other places I should look, or other ideas or avenues to pursue, I would be very grateful to you for letting me know.

Thanks for reading! Just say hi if you want to, it doesn't mean either of us is committed to anything LOL :)

Ron

Other people's children are terrific. I should know. I've been entrusted with them since the fourth grade. And I have always loved being the one who's known for my talent with kids, because I knew that when it was my turn, I'd be more qualified for that job than for any other.

So how did I end up in the swollen ranks of women who 'forgot to have kids'? The same way most do in this economic era. But as a performing artist and then journalist, I was especially in the wrong line for providing a secure home.

Now, as a college administrator and home owner, the stage is set for co-parenting. I'm not eager to jump into a relationship to make this happen. In fact, I'm not eager to jump into a relationship at all. My social circle is broad and bright. The only elements missing are a child and the father who shares in the process.

I am looking to be a loving dad and co-parent with someone in the immediate NY metro area / long Island. I am a 34 year-old single gay male of British and Italian descent. I am a NYC public school teacher in Brooklyn, healthy (eat right and exercise), drug and disease/std free and looking for the same in a white female who is looking for a loving co-parent and interested in a joint custody arrangement. I own a 2 bedroom apartment in Freeport, Long Island with a loving and supportive family nearby.

I am looking for someone who is financially stable, financially responsible and financially and emotionally independent who can evenly share all child-related expenses and share the joys of parenthood. If you fit that description, I'd love to hear from you.

Hello, I'm a 32-year old attractive African-American lesbian. I am seeking a nice guy to become a sperm donor only or co-parent depending on the situation. I am financially stable, well educated, and very excited about the possibility of having children. It is long overdue and maybe you can help me achieve this goal. Financial and legal responsibility is optional but not required. Serious inquiries may contact me at oneshenita@hotmail.com. I am open to all races and sexual orientations (drug/disease free please).

We would love to form a friendship with a lesbian or lesbian couple in hopes of establishing a co-parenting situation. I am 33 and will be the 'participating' father. My partner is 36. If you find interest in my posting feel free to reach out and say hello.

Thanks

I am a single gay male, I'm 35, I am extremely jealous of all my friends because they all have children now and I love their kids to death. I want some so bad but I also want the mother to be in their lives as well. I don't smoke, I drink socially (which is almost never) because I work on the third shift as a Diagnostic Mechanic and Maintenance Technician. So I rarely get out but my party years are behind me anyway. I like to ride quads and dirt bikes, I like to hike Mountains, Love doing stuff with my friends kids like kick ball, wrestling, man-hunt, and letterboxing (if you haven't heard of that and like to hike I suggest trying it. http://www.letterboxing.org). I wakeboard, snowboard, ride quads, Hike, camp, and am a myspace freak (http://www.myspace.com/iwantason)<--- I'm not usually on that one but if you message me on that one I may give you the address to my other myspace that has tons of pics and info. I'm not noticeably gay, meaning I'm really straight acting. I'm Tattooed, I drive a Big 4X4, I like Freestyle sports, and am in no way feminine.

I am seeking a lesbian or lesbian couple that would like to have at least two children and want there to be a father in their lives. I am currently supporting my parents and living with them but would like to find the right person to go in with on a house. That isn't a requisite its just an idea if there is someone out there that is looking for something similar. I guess what I'm trying to say is I would love to try the "Will N Grace" thing.

Hello,

My name is Janine, I live with my partner Annette and her 2 wonderful kids (11yo and 5yo). We would like to add another baby to our family. We would like to be the primary parents with full custody however would not have a problem with you visiting the baby if you'd like. We are both American. My background is Egyptian and Annette is Puerto Rican. We are both healthy, employed, caring, loving individuals. If interested please let us know. Thanks!

We are a lesbian couple near Baton Rouge, Louisiana who are in search of a donor. If you are an intelligent, compassionate, honest man who is interested in helping us achieve a life long dream of having a baby, then we look forward to hearing from you. We will not ask you for any type of support financially or emotionally and we will have a contract stating that we are solely responsible for the child, freeing you from parental responsibilities.

We're looking for someone who is located near Baton Rouge and is willing to continue with this until a successful pregnancy is achieved. If this seems like something you are interested in please email us with information about yourself. Photos would be great also. Please email responses to Tink5@cox.net.

We are a married, lesbian couple residing in San Diego, CA. We desire to be mothers and are looking for a willing to be known sperm donor. We would like to be the primary and custodial parents, but would not have a problem with you coming to visit the child as he/she grows up. We do want a willing to be known donor- even if it is not until after the child is 18. We would prefer to use fresh sperm rather than to utilize a sperm bank. We are open to answer ANY and ALL questions.

Please contact us if you would consider donating.

I am a single gay Asian man, professor at a top research university, handsome, very kind and loving, looking for co-parenting possibilities with a woman in San Francisco-Bay area. Even though I have the option of becoming a biological father through surrogacy, I believe that the healthy development of a child requires the care of a mother.

I am a person who values commitment and family. I met my ex-partner at the beginning of graduate school. We had had a beautiful and monogamous relationship for 12 years. This relationship ended in 2006 for reasons beyond our control. We always wanted to have a family. After our divorce, my desire to become a parent takes precedence over finding a new partner. For this reason I decide to join this site.

I turn 41 this year, in very good physical shape. I am looking for a well-educated woman who desires to share the joy and responsibility of parenting. I have no preference in terms of your ethnic origin, but a good education is important. I hope we can realize our dreams together.

Pictures upon request.

I am 45 years old, a medical doctor, with 3 children, and lead a university research group. I am 165, 70 kg, green/brown eyes and black hair as far as physical attributes go.

In my free time, when I am not doing research, I like playing chess, GO, walking around in museums and occasionally reading Talmudic literature. At the moment, I am reading the work of Chafetz Chaim. I am not much into sports myself, but that seems a recessive trait - my father was and my oldest 2 daughters are enjoying it very much.

I love children and would be happy to donate sperm, through AI only, to heterosexual couple, a lesbian couple or a single female from the same ethnic/religious background (kedat hahalacha). If interested, please contact at navevi04@yahoo.co.uk.

Full Description:
Latin Male(Western European Ancestry),Medium-light skinned but I tan well to a moderately dark complexion complexion,Olive skin I am very healthy,20/20 vision,Intelligent,attractive,straight male,well educated,BS Degree,drug free,disease free,very fit, I am in top shape, I am a health nut and exercise regularly.

High sperm count,no STDs,have recent STD tests,Full 67 marker DNA ancestry test linked to Western Europe, no family disease history, No Medical/Mental Problems.Non-Smoker never smoked,No Alcohol problems. Looking to donate sperm to gay,straight couples,single women seeking to have a child, free of charge,willing to take medial tests upon request, you just cover any expenses related to the donation, no strings attached.

Discretion assured. Prefer Natural Insemination, but I am open to Artificial Insemination (AI) as wel (NI) is offered in a consensual, tasteful manner only for women seeking natural conception. I will not ship, this is for your well being and my own, I need to know were the sperm is going and you need to know were it is coming from, We must in person, you can come to me or I can go to you. I am open to shipping but only after an initial meeting in person.

I am only looking for the chance to help others have a baby, I am a serious uncomplicated donor, No games. I would like anonymity and discretion from you. I would offer the same to you. I want no financial/emotional responsibility I am willing to give up parental rights 1000%, I am just looking to be a donor only.

I want to donate my sperm and my time for free to someone who is financially stable, having a child can be expensive and you should be prepared for it. If you are looking for a private donor because you want the human touch/known donor, personal treatment without strings,instead of being treated like a number like sperm banks, then I am your guy. I want to donate to someone for the right reasons.

I am open to the child making contact after the 18th birthday and for you send me photos and updates as the child grows. Please email me at johnjohnabc1@yahoo.com so we can discuss it further. I am located in South Florida, Fort Lauderdale.

I have good reasons as why I want to be a donor,and as we get to know each other I will discuss them with you.

Fort Lauderdale Florida
Please Provide number and best time to call if interested.

I am a settled and content guy, with a pretty full life. Over the past several years I have been lucky to have friends and family around me add some wonderful kids to thier families.

This has allowed me to know the joy that children can bring to your life. I am currently single so, I am exploring the opportunities that may be out there to help someone else wishing to have children as well. I would prefer to help either a lesbian couple, or single woman seeking to be a parent. Straight couples are great, but they have plenty of opportunities out there for them.

I have just started looking into this. So, let me know if you are interested, or would just like to chat. It would be great to hear back from other folks that are going through the same thing and could share their thoughts and experiences.

I am in Atlanta and would prefer to connect with somebody here in the southeast: Georgia, North/South Carolina, Alabama or Tennessee. However, I am open to travel to other places. Also, willing to chat with anybody, regardless of location.

Greetings Ladies,

I live in the suburbs of Washington, D.C. I am healthy, normal, nice looking Italian man who is successful in business. I have many close friends and a very loving family. I have a bachelor’s degree and I love my job, but I can imagine a better life coaching little league, braiding pigtails, or attending PTA meetings. I’m looking for a woman in a similar situation, who at this time of their life, realize that there is one thing missing – A child.

I am looking for a loving, caring woman who would be equal partners in raising a child ( or 2 ). Time goes by so quickly and perhaps we never find that one special person to realize the dream of raising children. I believe there is another way to achieve this goal.

I would love to chat more.

Regards,
dad2beindc@aol.com

Looking for a Caucasian Straight or Lesbian couple who want to Surrogate or Co-Parenting. We would like to be the primary parents with full custody however would not have a problem with you visiting the baby(s)if you'd like. I am Puerto Rican, 5'8", 160lbs, brown hair/eyes; my partner is Russian, 5'7", 130lbs, light brown hair/green eyes. I'm in a relationship with my partner for 7 years and we are ready for the big step of having some little ones running around. At the same time we would like to help other couples who need donation, distance is not a problem for us. For more information please feel free to contact us.

Thanks!

Hoping to father Two Children - US or Europe

City: NEW YORK / NARBONNE / US Coastal States / FRANCE / ITALY

Seeking to Father Two Children / De'sireux de devenir p`ere de deux enfants (trad.en bas).

ME:

6ft., brownish hair [was blond color when young - see pics - which show me in mid-20's - current ones available when you e-mail]; greenish [were once blue] eyes, 180lbs, 55 [act lot younger - never properly matured], bi/gay, Oxford graduate [I'm of Celtic parentage], usual 'arty' interests - cinema / theatre / galleries / travel, Mediterranean food and wines [but non-smoker]; not really sporty type but enjoy some mountain-biking (and always cycle/walk when in NYC); favourite novelists Iris Murdoch / early (later stuff too formulaic) Patricia Cornwell / Jose’ Saramago; musical preferences range from Monteverdi to Marc Almond and Philip Glass. Dry sense of humour. Currently on a kind of Sabbatical (previously worked in international organizations in legal advice / management fields). Have a small place in the South of France which would be good for summer holidays when the children are older. (Parents / all grandparents all lived to mid or late 80s - actually the old Mom is still going strong at 92 so no reason a priori why I shouldn't see children well into adulthood.) Currently living in the S. of France with occasional visits to US. Totally healthy. Not in a relationship. Somewhat nomadic ( for work purposes ) at the moment but have home bases in both Oxford, England, and the Languedoc, France.

YOU:

Positive outlook; intelligent; at least University education; probably working in some sort of creative and/or professional field, financially secure; could be single or in a relationship, but welcoming of my involvement in the children's upbringing and also definitely wanting at least two children [I have a view that children should grow up with at least one brother or sister.] You probably live either East or West Coast, or maybe Europe. You are open minded enough not to mind the idea of an 'older' father ( you might even see the advantages - there are some...)

THE IDEA:

You would be the custodial parent of the children but I would get to visit for at least a couple of months of the year and as they get older the children would come to stay with me for roughly half of school vacations [assuming they wanted to]. In other words a ‘friendly divorce’ type of arrangement. I would make sure they had a good time and you would get a rest from constant parenting. I would want a say in their education - I would especially want them to get a good musical and bilingual education from an early age. Obviously situations can change as time goes on and children's inclinations count for a lot but these are my broad-brush ideas. People say I relate well to children. Quite a few friends (seeing me with their children) have said 'you would make a good father'. It would be crucial that you and I would get on well together even though we didn't want to live together / be around one another for more than a couple of months of the year. Actual insemination would be with syringe (in case you were worried....) (or maybe through IUI if you prefer ?) .

Please e-mail me if you are at all interested to discuss this further, in complete confidence that I will exercise [and expect] total discretion and total confidentiality around these exchanges. Please write FULLY ie with as much detail about yourself and your 'project' as you read here about me and mine. Pix (to exchange) and full details about you / your ideas essential. [Thanks for reading so far. Wishing only good things to all of us aching to become parents......]

E-mail: jonblane@hotmail.com.

[Ad in French follows]:

Sujet: Mec ado [55 ans] recherche copine pour projet de coparentalite': Mec ado [55 ans],franco-britannique, [qui habite entre le Languedoc et Oxford ] recherche copine/s pour projet de coparentalité de deux enfants dans relation genre peut-être ‘divorce amicale’. Bonjour à toutes et à tous. Ou commencer ?? Je nourris depuis trop longtemps ce grand désir de devenir et être père de deux enfants [deux parce-que je pense que l’enfant a besoin d’un[e] petit[e] frère ou sœur pour grandir avec]. J’ai commencé à mettre des annonces il y a longtemps mais avec le travail [juriste / administrateur] je n’ai pas suivi le ‘projet’ avec assez d’assiduité. Maintenant je viens de quitter le travail pendant un ou deux ans ‘sabbatiques’ donc plus d’excuses / auto-exculpation….

Je suppose que – donné la mythique baguette magique - je recherche une femme genre ‘Annie Hall’ ?? – intello, sérieuse mais avec grand sens de l’humour, féminine, établie dans sa profession libérale - raisonnablement aisée point de vue finances, aimant les arts, le voyage, parlant plusieurs langues [ou du moins l’anglais – je voudrais que les enfants bénéficient d’une éducation bilangue si possible] et bien sûr beaucoup plus jeune que moi [mais ne voyant pas de problème dans la différence d’âge] ! [Prof de fac ? avocate ? cadre sup dans organisation internationale ?] Et avec résidence actuelle ou projetée pour l’avenir dans le Languedoc ou ailleurs dans le midi. [Ce dernier n'est gu`ere obligatoire - on parle de l'ide'ale.....]

Mes idées de comment cela pourrait marcher suivent:

En bref je n’envisage pas de garde alternée - plutôt je passerais du temps avec nos enfants / vous selon notre accord et leurs désirs; et dans l’avenir [ ?après l’âge de disons 7 ans ?] ils viendraient passer du temps avec moi, y compris la moitié des vacances scolaires….. Enfin ce sont des idées de base qui devraient se modifier le long du long projet et selon les circonstances futures qui ne sont pas toujours prévoyables………Mais voilà d’où je commence…….- on doit commencer quelque part……

Si mes idées vous disent quelque chose et vous vous intéressez à en discuter veuillez svp m’envoyer un courriel [à jonblane@hotmail.com ] plein d’infos sur vous / votre projet. Et des photos [ bien su^r à s’échanger]. S’il vous plaît pas de réponses de 5 lignes seulement. Discrétion totale assurée / attendue……. Merci d’avance………Et bonne chance à toutes / tous ....