Male friends both gay & straight have turned me down
I am willing to explore whether a man is willing to co-parent with a stranger that hopes to gain a good friend from the experience before I default to the sperm bank
Both sides must be comfortable including family & friends because i will need their support
Please contact me to begin communications at katana416@hotmail.com.
A little about me...
my personality: stubborn, bossy, helpful, loyal
importance of money: not having money makes me unhappy
career: i dont like working a full-time job, i don't know what i want to be when i grow up
What are you looking for in a partner?
i am MAINLY looking for a co-parent to have a child with, preferably someone of hispanic (preferably, mexican) descent, is athletic and is revered by family and friends.
i am IN A committed relationship.
i would also LIKE someone that likes or participates in sports.
favorite activities: sports, network tv, travel, good food, any music with a lot of bass.
restaurants: i like to eat out.
places: i love caribbean and european beaches.
music: i like nyc house/club music from the 80s.
movies: i have a short attention span.
pets: i like all animals except sneaky long-haired cats.
kids: i like well-behaved children with interesting personalities.
fitness: don't do much since knee surgery last year. i used to play softball 3-5 days a week and ride a crotch-rocket.
hobby: real estate.
i am over 40.
I really admire Gay couples who long to have a family and I would consider it a great honour to assist a Lesbian couple by donating sperm to help them in making their dream come true. I am completely honest and discreet and am happy to enter into any agreements required.
Gay/Bi attractive,Latino,professional male,late 30s, Master's degree, D/D free. Seeks female for friendship and child creation. Shared custody. I would like someone who is family-oriented, nurturing, and easy-going like myself. Must be humane and with a good heart. Serious inquires only please! Contact me if interested.
Successful and artistic college educated gay male employed full-time in the arts seeks a female/females to enter into a 50/50 agreement. I have so much love to give to a child and would love to pursue this as a possibility.
New to this and I don't claim to know all the ins/outs of making this a reality- but would like to talk with like-minded women/couples that have similar goals.
I am 37 years old and very healthy in NH. I am open to many different agreements and possibilities.
Let's chat and see where it goes... at the very least I will learn more about the possibility of being a great dad to a child.
We are a happy, loving gay couple who would like to be parents. We are a looking for a female or lesbian couple who want the same and would be willing to help us. In return we would help you make your parenting dreams come true.
I am 35 yrs. old, of Mexican descent. Born and raised in Houston, TX. I am a professional singer and actor and I have worked as a singer/actor professionally for 19 years.
My partner Donald is 41, Caucasian. Born and raised near Birmingham, AL. He is a professional working as a director of the business office in health care.
We are financially stable and disease and drug free.
My partner and I have been together since 1996 (13 years, March '09) and believe that fatherhood is the next natural step in our lives, in our relationship, and in our biological desires as men.
We are seeking a female or female couple for a co-parenting relationship; the details of the co-parenting relationship are negotiable.
Ethnicity is not important, we welcome all races. Our vision of establishing a connection with a potential co-parent(s) involves written correspondence and a brief face to face meeting in a public setting before moving forward to the next step.
If it is your desire to join us on this journey to parenthood, please contact us (cdan2302@aol.com).
Gay, black male in his 20's looking to co-parent with an interested lesbian couple, or single female looking to start a family. I am a college educated, fully employed, homeowner. I am physically healthy, HIV-negative, free of sexually transmitted diseases, and have been tested for CMV, as well as sickle cell. I am looking to arrange a co-parenting relationship with a couple or individual wanting to create an alternative family arrangement. I would like to look at beginning this process as soon as possible, after having had an opportunity to dialogue about mutual expectations.
hi, how are you? this is the first time i have done this so forgive me if i ramble. my partner and i are lesbians and we have talked and researched about having a baby and how us being the way we are would affect the childs life. i am 27 and a singer and my partner (zoe) is 23 and a golf development officer. we both live in south wales u.k. we have been together just over 2 years and are a very loving couple. we are both earning a good living and the child would not go without. we adore each other and belive that a child would be the icing on the cake to make our family complete. neither of us have ever been in trouble with the law and live a very happy and peacful life. neither of us are religious but respect that others do and have thier beliefs and often have discussions about it and it does make you question lol. i am personally more spiritual. we both have very loving and supportive families and they are keeping thier fingers crossed that we get pregnant and have said that we are excellent parents without the child. we often take care of our friends children and we have a ball making teaching them about schooling and why it's important and about life and also baking and running around the park laughing and giggling.
we are healthy people with a healthy lifestyle and have no history of health problems except the fact i had epilepsy as a child but grew out of it at 13 i was taken off medication and have been fine ever since. other than that there is asolutely nothing.
we are looking for a donor but we dont want them to be in the childs life. we would consider the donor being a 'friend' of the family and maybe seeing them a couple of times a year. we would always want to keep in touch with the donor as when the child grows up we want them to know exactly where they came from.
i really should stop here as i feel i'm rambling too much now lol. if you would like to know absolutely anything else then you're more than welcome to ask away.
thanks very much and i hope to hear from you soon.
sincerely
I live in the Los Angeles area, in Valencia, just north of the San Fernando Valley. I can donate fresh sperm in the Los Angeles area, and I can also ship fresh sperm overnight. I may be able to provide frozen sperm as well.
I am 43 years old, Caucasian, 5’10”, 185 pounds, light brown hair, blue eyes, in good shape. I have not had any health issues, and I am disease-free and drug-free. I had a semen analysis performed in March 2008, which showed high count and high motility. I have had 2 children relatively recently, a 6-year-old daughter and a 3-year-old son. The children that resulted from my donation at the California Cryobank are all 10-15 years old. None of the children have had any health issues.
I first was a sperm donor at the California Cryobank when I was in graduate school at Stanford (from 1991-95). I started donating because I realized that most of the guys that I knew there would never do so, for a variety of reasons. I did it to help people who wanted to start families. I have been fortunate enough to meet 3 of the children that resulted from my donations, and I have heard from the mothers of a couple more. That has been a very positive experience.
I was on Oprah in February 2008 discussing my experience. (The show was rerun on July 11, 2008.) There were several adult children of donors who were also on the show, and they really wanted to meet their donor. One had met her biological father, and she and the donor (who was in the audience) found it to be very positive. The other three women had not been able to identify or meet their donors and were very frustrated and distressed by this. Since I am quite willing to be a known donor and since the experience has proven to be very positive for me, I decided then to be a known donor.
If you are interested, please send me an email at todd@toddwhitehurst.com. You can read a bit more about me on my website at http://www.toddwhitehurst.com.
I am looking to be a loving dad and co-parent with someone in the immediate NY metro area / long Island. I am a 34 year-old single gay male of British and Italian descent. I am a NYC public school teacher in Brooklyn, healthy (eat right and exercise), drug and disease/std free and looking for the same in a white female who is looking for a loving co-parent and interested in a joint custody arrangement. I own a 2 bedroom apartment in Freeport, Long Island with a loving and supportive family nearby.
I am looking for someone who is financially stable, financially responsible and financially and emotionally independent who can evenly share all child-related expenses and share the joys of parenthood. If you fit that description, I'd love to hear from you.
I am a single gay male, I'm 34 will be 35 in April. I am extremely jealous of all my friends because they all have children now and I love their kids to death. I want some so bad but I also want the mother to be in their lives as well. I don't smoke, I drink socially (which is almost never) because I work on the third shift as a Diagnostic Mechanic and Maintenance Technician. So I rarely get out but my party years are behind me anyway. I like to ride quads and dirt bikes, I like to hike Mountains, Love doing stuff with my friends kids like kick ball, wrestling, man-hunt, and letterboxing (if you haven't heard of that and like to hike I suggest trying it. http://www.letterboxing.org). I wakeboard, snowboard, ride quads, Hike, camp, and am a myspace freak (http://www.myspace.com/iwantason)<--- I'm not usually on that one but if you message me on that one I may give you the address to my other myspace that has tons of pics and info. I'm not noticeably gay, meaning I'm really straight acting. I'm Tattooed, I drive a Big 4X4, I like Freestyle sports, and am in no way feminine.
I am seeking a lesbian or lesbian couple that would like to have at least two children and want there to be a father in their lives. I am currently supporting my parents and living with them but would like to find the right person to go in with on a house. That isn't a requisite its just an idea if there is someone out there that is looking for something similar. I guess what I'm trying to say is I would love to try the "Will N Grace" thing.
Hello, I am a 35 year old single female who has not meet Mr. Right unfortunately so I have decided to start a family of my own. Ideally I would like a known donor so the child (children) would know where they came from. I am very lucky I have a great cirle of friends and family who are very supportive and helpful. Thanks :) Margo
I am a single gay Asian man, professor at a top research university, handsome, very kind and loving, looking for co-parenting possibilities with a woman in San Francisco-Bay area. Even though I have the option of becoming a biological father through surrogacy, I believe that the healthy development of a child requires the care of a mother.
I am a person who values commitment and family. I met my ex-partner at the beginning of graduate school. We had had a beautiful and monogamous relationship for 12 years. This relationship ended in 2006 for reasons beyond our control. We always wanted to have a family. After our divorce, my desire to become a parent takes precedence over finding a new partner. For this reason I decide to join this site.
I turn 40 this year, in very good physical shape. I am looking for a well-educated woman who desires to share the joy and responsibility of parenting. I have no preference in terms of your ethnic origin, but a good education is important. I hope we can realize our dreams together.
Rew here, at your service. I'm a 25 soon to be 26 year old male. I am currently attending university as well as developing a line of organic maternity wear. I am interested in donating sperm to help women achieve their dream of being mothers. I am hard working, intelligent, creative and happen to be gay so this is my way of bringing life into the world.
I'd be happy to talk with you, answer any questions and show you pictures of me as a kid. I am open to structuring the relationship around your needs, but can not be held financially responsible for any children.
Can you hear that...it's my biological clock ticking?
I am 32 years old and ready to start the next chapter in my life: children.
I am happily partnered to a wonderful man (Brian - 34 years old) who has been there for me through the thick and thin of things and I for him; we actually just celebrated our 9th year together.
Brian grew up in Wisconsin and, at the age of 18, enlisted into the Air Force. Through his 8 year stint he has served in the Gulf War, has been to Korea, Saudi Arabia, Ireland and Spain, and has also lived all over the east coast. In 1999 he transferred to Phoenix and that's where we met. I was born in Paris, (Texas that is), but grew up in Arizona (Bisbee to be exact). I also have an identical twin brother so twins may be possible.
I will admit that we were skeptical at first and not sure how all of this works, but we do know one thing...it is time we start looking into our parenting options and start a family that we so desire. We are open to all avenues when it comes to parenting, but I personally want to first see if I am able to have children from my bloodline vs. adoption at this point. We haven't really discussed the whole co-parenting option in detail as that will also be based on the mother of the child and if she will even want to be involved; but again, we are open to anything at this point and will talk more about it in detail once we get to that stage.
What we are looking for in a prospective mother: Caucasian and/or Hispanic - educated - medically, mentally and physically able to endure the process - perhaps someone who already has children and/or a family of their own and wants to help a loving, nurturing couple complete their family.
I know there are a lot of questions still to be answered, and asked, but please look into your hearts and be sincere when, or if, you have decided to answer this post. We are open to all types of communication with prospective mothers: via phone, email, public places, etc. Thank you for taking the time to read our ad and God Bless.
Sincerely,
Dads to be
P.S. More pictures and information are available once a connection has been made with any prospective mother; as well as any documentation that is needed in terms of health, (mental & physical), & stability.
Other people's children are terrific. I should know. I've been entrusted with them since the fourth grade. And I have always loved being the one who's known for my talent with kids, because I knew that when it was my turn, I'd be more qualified for that job than for any other.
So how did I end up in the swollen ranks of women who 'forgot to have kids'? The same way most do in this economic era. But as a performing artist and then journalist, I was especially in the wrong line for providing a secure home.
Now, as a college administrator and home owner, the stage is set for co-parenting. I'm not eager to jump into a relationship to make this happen. In fact, I'm not eager to jump into a relationship at all. My social circle is broad and bright. The only elements missing are a child and the father who shares in the process.
I am a 20 year old Lesbian woman, looking to start my family.
I am financially secure, with a loving, and supportive family.
I am looking for someone close, so that this may happen quite quickly.
I am open to answer ANY and ALL questions.
Thanks!
Michaela
I am a mature, responsible guy looking to donate my sperm to a single mother or couple. I have been thinking about being a sperm donor for years and now I'm ready. I am very serious and sincere about donating and all im looking for in return is that you be a mature, finacially stable, spiritually grounded, maternal woman looking to enrich your life as this is enriching mine. I'm very healthy and have no family history of any illnesses.
I'm not looking at this time to be a co-parent but as stated before I'm looking to be a donor and am willing to sign away parental rights. Although if pictures are possible that would be greatly appreciated. I do have some college but never finished, but I am an intelligent fella.
I am from a fairly large family so I am very family oriented. I love being around good, honest sincere people and enjoy the company of friends and family and i was born into a strong relegious background. Although Im more into a relationship with God than I am with relegion. I love running and exercising and walking through the great outdoors as well as swimming.
I am open to donate to ALL ethnicities. Im also open to visiting other states to make this possible as long as the recipient is willing to cover cost. I do have a good job and my hours are very flexible.
This is the first time Im doing this so I'm new to the idea, but Im very comfortable with it and willing and ready. I am once again very sincere and serious about donating. Please feel free to contact me anytime via e-mail and make sure you include pics. Thank you very much and I look foward to this fullfilling expience of my life as well as yours. Be blessed and be safe.
We are a committed lesbian couple for 2 years and have been trying to find a donor to help us start a family. We would prefer a gay male that wants to be a part of the child's life.
Hi everybody, We are a gay couple, living in Brussels, Belgium. We are together for the last 4 years & as we want to become a real family, we look for a way to have our own children. We are looking either for a woman who is wiling to be a surrogate mother for our child, or a woman or a lesbian couple, who would like to co-parent with us (this for sure has to be in Belgium). If by any chance you are interested or know someone who may be - please let us know, Yours, F & A
My name is Melissa I am 25 and my partner's name is Tammy she is 37. We have been in a stable relationship for 8 years and are ready to start a family. I am a preschool teacher and Tammy was in chemical engineering. We are looking for someone who wants to be a parent just a much as we do.
We would love to co-parent with a gay man or couple who want to have a family. We would for the family to be in Michigan because all of our family is here.
We are a gay male couple that have been together for almost 20 years. I am 41 (Jon) and my partner Ben is (37). We have been fortunate to be surrounded by children all our lives but we know we really one to have a child of our own. I am looking to be the primary parent (pictured in blue shirt). We have great hearts, are very open minded and would make a child have the most incredible, warm, nuturing and fullfilled life that a child can have. Ben has one brother and his mother lives close to us here in Florida. I have five sisters and one brother with a grandmother who lives close to me so the child would have a lot of family around to surround themselves with love. We have many close friends as well who would each contribute something positive to the life of the child.
We are both middle class, own our own home and are gainfully employed. We live in a two-story townhome in a planned community with good schools near by and many wonderful activites that any child could dream of. We imagine a little girl is out there somewhere waiting for us who loves music, ballet, the color pink and sleeps in a room with a canopy bed over it surrounded by images of Disney and Tinkerbell on her walls. Or, we imagine we would be so fortune to have a young man who is out there waiting to be part of our lives who enjoys history, maybe sports and will grow up to be a strong and confident young man.
We are looking for a single female or lesbian couple who will join us going down this path for a co-parent relationship. We are very open and flexible but are hoping the child would be able to live with us as the primary with a 50/50 parent relationship. We want to be in this together but are open to exploring all options.
We would be honored for your response to help us realize this dream.
We would love to form a friendship with a lesbian or lesbian couple in hopes of establishing a co-parenting situation. I am 33 and will be the 'participating' father. My partner is 36. If you find interest in my posting feel free to reach out and say hello.
My partner and I are seeking to father a child with a woman/couple. I am a 33 year old mature, Indian/Latin guy and my partner is 45 yo with Irish background. We have an exceptional relationship with our family, financially stable with advanced degrees and established career background. We are stable, confident, reliable, highly motivated and competent.
We are seeking a stable mature woman or lesbian couple [preferably caucasian or Indian] who is interested in co-parenting a child with us. We're looking to extend our family with love, respect and nuture our child/ren and his/her mother.
If interested, please email: octhana@aol.com and I will be glad to reply. Have a great day!
Whew! Well, I've never placed an ad like this before, but here goes! I am a 38 (soon to be 39) year old gay man that has dreamt of being a dad for as long as I've known I was gay LOL. To many it may seem that the two are incongruous, but then again I never really did fit any of the typical stereotypes. Ultimately I am looking for a family of my own to share with a woman who feels like I do, and without losing my gay identity. I guess I envision a lesbian or lesbian couple first, but I am staying open minded.
I seek a coparent arrangement because I feel a child deserves both a Mom and Dad if possible. I have a big heart and have a lot of love to give, and that includes giving some to my future baby's Momma (again let me say that I am G-A-Y honey, hahaha!) I could never be in a situation where I feel cold and disconnected to the little one's Mommy. It's my job to be a good Daddy, and that means being a good guy to Mom as well!!
I am in a nearly 10 year relationship with a wonderful man. We share our home, have a business together, and share our past, present, and future. We are excited about the prospect of enlarging our family of two, but I am really the one that feels the strongest calling to Fatherhood.
In this day and age of online instant gratification, it's hard to slow down and be patient and take the time to find the right person for this unique parenting partnership. I don't really know what to expect, and I don't really know exactly what I am looking for, but I hope that I will have the wisdom to know it when I find it :)
I'm interested in hearing from healthy, down to earth women of childbearing age who are well adjusted to life and have a deep seated desire to have a loving family with a man who wants that too. I guess if you feel like you "need" a child but not the baby's Dad around, then we probably aren't what each other is looking for.
If anyone reading this has any suggestions for other places I should look, or other ideas or avenues to pursue, I would be very grateful to you for letting me know.
Thanks for reading! Just say hi if you want to, it doesn't mean either of us is committed to anything LOL :)
We are 38 and 39 year old African-american and Hispanic guys, professionals, in a Loving committed monogamus relationship for 9 years. We are disease and drug free. We love to spend time with family and friends. We are honest and sincere about becoming fathers.
We are looking for a co-parenting relationship. Our dreams in life is to have a biological child but we can not do it alone. We are willing to assist financially in raising the child. You will be the primary parent, we are very open to the degree of involvement. We believe it is important for a child to be exposed to male and female influences.
So if you want to be a mother we want to be fathers, so let make both of our dream came true.
If interested, please do not hesitate to contact our via E-mail to TSUGREYSTONE@HOTMAIL.COM
I do have picture to share.
Perfect couple seeking a sperm donor to father one or more children. We are looking to be parents with no strings attached from the sperm donor. However, we would like the father to father more children for us. Megan and I are very successful and i have two children from my previous marriage. If youare interested or willing please email us.
I am a 33 year old newly single lesbian. My dream has to always been a mom and my ex partner and I tried for awhile, resulting in one miscarriage. I know I can get pregnant, and at first I used the sperm bank, but now i am looking for a known donor. I would also consider co-parenting, would like to talk about it. Thanks so much for considering me.