Gay, black male in his 20's looking to co-parent with an interested lesbian couple, or single female looking to start a family. I am a college educated, fully employed, homeowner. I am physically healthy, HIV-negative, free of sexually transmitted diseases, and have been tested for CMV, as well as sickle cell. I am looking to arrange a co-parenting relationship with a couple or individual wanting to create an alternative family arrangement. I would like to look at beginning this process as soon as possible, after having had an opportunity to dialogue about mutual expectations.
Can you hear that...it's my biological clock ticking?
I am 32 years old and ready to start the next chapter in my life: children.
I am happily partnered to a wonderful man (Brian - 34 years old) who has been there for me through the thick and thin of things and I for him; we actually just celebrated our 9th year together.
Brian grew up in Wisconsin and, at the age of 18, enlisted into the Air Force. Through his 8 year stint he has served in the Gulf War, has been to Korea, Saudi Arabia, Ireland and Spain, and has also lived all over the east coast. In 1999 he transferred to Phoenix and that's where we met. I was born in Paris, (Texas that is), but grew up in Arizona (Bisbee to be exact). I also have an identical twin brother so twins may be possible.
I will admit that we were skeptical at first and not sure how all of this works, but we do know one thing...it is time we start looking into our parenting options and start a family that we so desire. We are open to all avenues when it comes to parenting, but I personally want to first see if I am able to have children from my bloodline vs. adoption at this point. We haven't really discussed the whole co-parenting option in detail as that will also be based on the mother of the child and if she will even want to be involved; but again, we are open to anything at this point and will talk more about it in detail once we get to that stage.
What we are looking for in a prospective mother: Caucasian and/or Hispanic - educated - medically, mentally and physically able to endure the process - perhaps someone who already has children and/or a family of their own and wants to help a loving, nurturing couple complete their family.
I know there are a lot of questions still to be answered, and asked, but please look into your hearts and be sincere when, or if, you have decided to answer this post. We are open to all types of communication with prospective mothers: via phone, email, public places, etc. Thank you for taking the time to read our ad and God Bless.
Sincerely,
Dads to be
P.S. More pictures and information are available once a connection has been made with any prospective mother; as well as any documentation that is needed in terms of health, (mental & physical), & stability.
I am loving, tall, blue-eyed, trim & fit, healthy, scientist, genius I.Q., financially successful, a widower. I have been tested disease free and have healthy sperm. I posted my high school photo and a recent photo. We can exchange photos and meet in person if we get serious about this.
I donated by overnight FedEx and it worked the first month, so if you are fertile, it should happen quickly, but I won't give up once we start.
I am only interested in donating to a woman who is intelligent, professional, weight medium or thin , loving and stable. I will be a "donor" with no rights so my involvement, if any, is 100% up to you, but I am open to some contact. I would like to help financially including, help with your expenses and an inheritance.
I will accept no payment and I will pay all shipping cost.
You may e-mail me at topgenes@gmail.com if you believe you would be a great Mother.
I'm an educated, intelligent, healthy male, with a good family background. I've always wanted to have kids, but so far that opportunity hasn't presented itself. Since I may never have the chance to have my own family, I would love to be a biological dad, either known or anonymous, for kids to be raised by another loving family, preferably a stable, committed lesbian couple.
I am very open-minded, I have a good job, and I'm a very easy person to deal with. Ideally, I would love to be a known father and have some role in the child's life. However, I am flexible as to just how much involvement would be desired, and being a totally anonymous donor would not be a deal breaker either. I'm Jewish (both sides of my family), and I'm of English, Austrian and Lithuanian ancestry. I am more spiritual than religious, although I am not anti-religion. I'm very responsible, I'm great around kids (I have nieces who I adore), and I'd be a great dad in a kid's life, in whatever capacity. I'm very youthful in looks and spirit, as are my parents and as were their parents.
I'm open to donate to anyone of any race, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, etc., as long as the parents are stable, healthy and loving. I'm also open to fathering more than one child if a couple is wanting to raise biologically related siblings. Looking forward to hearing from people!
Hi there! My name is Gayle. I am 31 years old, living currently in PA! I am looking into becoming a Surrogate! I have three awesome kids! My son is 13. The ladies are 6 and 4. I am married, but we have been separated for the past two and a half years. I do have a wonderful support system of very supportive friends. The women in my life are very strong women; like attracts like right!
I did go to Europe to have an embryo transfer this summer. I am familiar with the injections and other medications. Unfortunately, the transfer was not a success. Of the seven embryos that were thawed, only two were quality to be transferred. It was very sad for me but I feel I have a better understanding of how couples find themselves in the position to turn to a surrogate.
I just recently had my pap and all blood screening. I have a clean bill of health. Unfortunately, I do not have medical insurance, but will be willing to get it! Please contact me if you feel you would like to chat and ask any questions.
I am willing to deliver in another state and have you attend any and all medical appointments.
I am looking for parents that will attempt breastfeeding themselves or use breast milk. This will create a bond between you and your child as well as deliver nutrients to the developing brain.
I am a mature, responsible guy looking to donate my sperm to a single mother or couple. I have been thinking about being a sperm donor for years and now I'm ready. I am very serious and sincere about donating and all im looking for in return is that you be a mature, finacially stable, spiritually grounded, maternal woman looking to enrich your life as this is enriching mine. I'm very healthy and have no family history of any illnesses.
I'm not looking at this time to be a co-parent but as stated before I'm looking to be a donor and am willing to sign away parental rights. Although if pictures are possible that would be greatly appreciated. I do have some college but never finished, but I am an intelligent fella.
I am from a fairly large family so I am very family oriented. I love being around good, honest sincere people and enjoy the company of friends and family and i was born into a strong relegious background. Although Im more into a relationship with God than I am with relegion. I love running and exercising and walking through the great outdoors as well as swimming.
I am open to donate to ALL ethnicities. Im also open to visiting other states to make this possible as long as the recipient is willing to cover cost. I do have a good job and my hours are very flexible.
This is the first time Im doing this so I'm new to the idea, but Im very comfortable with it and willing and ready. I am once again very sincere and serious about donating. Please feel free to contact me anytime via e-mail and make sure you include pics. Thank you very much and I look foward to this fullfilling expience of my life as well as yours. Be blessed and be safe.
I am a gay man who used to work in childcare and I've seen many happy families. Now, I'm working in the medical field and looking to help women start families of their own.
Since talking to my lesbian friends it seems it is difficult to find a gay man who is willing to donate.
I am a sensitive, thoughtful, passionate man who has a sense of humor. I love politics, religion, music and art. I'm excelling in my new career and love every minute of it. Raising children is a blessing but it is not for me. I have no wishes to co-parent, but if you wish for me to be a part of your child's life, I'm willing to be a known donor. I live in Minneapolis MN and I don't travel much or more than 300 miles away. Please contact me if you'd like to know more.
Other people's children are terrific. I should know. I've been entrusted with them since the fourth grade. And I have always loved being the one who's known for my talent with kids, because I knew that when it was my turn, I'd be more qualified for that job than for any other.
So how did I end up in the swollen ranks of women who 'forgot to have kids'? The same way most do in this economic era. But as a performing artist and then journalist, I was especially in the wrong line for providing a secure home.
Now, as a college administrator and home owner, the stage is set for co-parenting. I'm not eager to jump into a relationship to make this happen. In fact, I'm not eager to jump into a relationship at all. My social circle is broad and bright. The only elements missing are a child and the father who shares in the process.
Hi everybody,
We are a gay couple, living in Brussels, Belgium.
We are together for the last 4 years & as we want to become a real family, we look for a way to have our own children. We are looking either for a woman who is wiling to be a surrogate mother for our child, or a woman or a lesbian couple, who would like to co-parent with us (this for sure has to be in Belgium).
If by any chance you are interested or know someone who may be - please let us know,
Yours,
F & A
I'm a 26 year old male who would like to help others to become parents. I think that anybody that can and wants to take care of a child should be able to. I hope that I can help a couple/ person to have a child who otherwise wouldn't be able to have one.
I'm STD free, I'm willing to sign away all parental rights. I do not seek any involvement in your child's life. But I'm willing to have my identity be known.
I have brown hair, blue eyes, I'm six feet tall, weigh 185 lbs and I'm in good health.
I like running, reading, history, science, music, hanging out with friends, nature, singing, and volunteering.
I wish everyone the best of luck in becoming parents.
Please email if you have any questions, I'm more than happy to answer your questions.
I am a healthy, drug and disease-free 36 year-old male residing in New England who is open to donating sperm to an individual or couple. I am not seeking any parental rights and desire to keep my greater privacy intact.
Recipient takes full responsibility of the child. I have helped to produce one child thus far, and would enjoy the opportunity to do it again.
IMPORTANT: I would prefer the recipient be open to natural method; I have found at-home artificial insemination to be tedious and thus far fairly ineffective. I realize this arrangement will not be for everyone, but I figured I would be completely up-front about the methods I desire. I will provide sperm via at-home artificial insemination at a location of your choosing, but I will charge for this service.
Latin Male(Western European Ancestry),Medium-light skinned but I tan well to a moderately dark complexion complexion,Olive skin I am very healthy,20/20 vision,Intelligent,attractive,straight male,well educated,BS Degree,drug free,disease free,very fit, I am in top shape, I am a health nut and exercise regularly.
High sperm count,no STDs,have recent STD tests,Full 67 marker DNA ancestry test linked to Western Europe, no family disease history,No Medical/Mental Problems.Non-Smoker never smoked,No Alcohol problems. Looking to donate sperm to gay,straight couples,single women seeking to have a child, free of charge,willing to take medial tests upon request, you just cover any expenses related to the donation, no strings attached.
Discretion assured. Open to Natural Insemination(NI) is offered in a consensual, tasteful manner only for women seeking natural conception or Artificial Insemination(AI). I will not ship, this is for your well being and my own, I need to know were the sperm is going and you need to know were it is coming from, We must in person, you can come to me or I can go to you. I am open to shipping but only after an initial meeting in person.
I am only looking for the chance to help others have a baby, I am a serious uncomplicated donor, No games. I would like anonymity and discretion from you. I would offer the same to you. I want no financial/emotional responsibility I am willing to give up parental rights 1000%, I am just looking to be a donor only.
I want to donate my sperm and my time for free to someone who is financially stable,
having a child can be expensive and you should be prepared for it. If you are looking
for a private donor because you want the human touch/known donor, personal
treatment without strings,instead of being treated like a number like sperm banks, then I am your guy.I want to donate to someone for the right reasons.
I am open to the child making contact after the 18Th birthday and for you send me photos and updates as the child grows. Please email me at johnjohnabc1@yahoo.com so we can discuss it further. I am located in South Florida, Fort Lauderdale.
I have good reasons as why I want to be a donor,and as we get to know each other I will discuss them with you.
Fort Lauderdale Florida
Please Provide number and best time to call if interested
Rew here, at your service. I'm a 25 soon to be 26 year old male. I am currently attending university as well as developing a line of organic maternity wear. I am interested in donating sperm to help women achieve their dream of being mothers. I am hard working, intelligent, creative and happen to be gay so this is my way of bringing life into the world.
I'd be happy to talk with you, answer any questions and show you pictures of me as a kid. I am open to structuring the relationship around your needs, but can not be held financially responsible for any children.
Perfect couple seeking a sperm donor to father one or more children. We are looking to be parents with no strings attached from the sperm donor. However, we would like the father to father more children for us. Megan and I are very successful and i have two children from my previous marriage. If youare interested or willing please email us.
Whew! Well, I've never placed an ad like this before, but here goes! I am a 38 (soon to be 39) year old gay man that has dreamt of being a dad for as long as I've known I was gay LOL. To many it may seem that the two are incongruous, but then again I never really did fit any of the typical stereotypes. Ultimately I am looking for a family of my own to share with a woman who feels like I do, and without losing my gay identity. I guess I envision a lesbian or lesbian couple first, but I am staying open minded.
I seek a coparent arrangement because I feel a child deserves both a Mom and Dad if possible. I have a big heart and have a lot of love to give, and that includes giving some to my future baby's Momma (again let me say that I am G-A-Y honey, hahaha!) I could never be in a situation where I feel cold and disconnected to the little one's Mommy. It's my job to be a good Daddy, and that means being a good guy to Mom as well!!
I am in a nearly 10 year relationship with a wonderful man. We share our home, have a business together, and share our past, present, and future. We are excited about the prospect of enlarging our family of two, but I am really the one that feels the strongest calling to Fatherhood.
In this day and age of online instant gratification, it's hard to slow down and be patient and take the time to find the right person for this unique parenting partnership. I don't really know what to expect, and I don't really know exactly what I am looking for, but I hope that I will have the wisdom to know it when I find it :)
I'm interested in hearing from healthy, down to earth women of childbearing age who are well adjusted to life and have a deep seated desire to have a loving family with a man who wants that too. I guess if you feel like you "need" a child but not the baby's Dad around, then we probably aren't what each other is looking for.
If anyone reading this has any suggestions for other places I should look, or other ideas or avenues to pursue, I would be very grateful to you for letting me know.
Thanks for reading! Just say hi if you want to, it doesn't mean either of us is committed to anything LOL :)
We are a lesbian couple near Baton Rouge, Louisiana who are in search of a donor. If you are an intelligent, compassionate, honest man who is interested in helping us achieve a life long dream of having a baby, then we look forward to hearing from you. We will not ask you for any type of support financially or emotionally and we will have a contract stating that we are solely responsible for the child, freeing you from parental responsibilities.
We're looking for someone who is located near Baton Rouge and is willing to continue with this until a successful pregnancy is achieved. Ideally we'd prefer a donor who is Caucasian with light eyes and hair, simply for the fact of trying to match our genetics. Although, we will consider different genetics as well.
If this seems like something you are interested in please email us with information about yourself. Photos would be great also. Please email responses to Tink5@cox.net.
I am looking for a gay man to be a sperm donor for me. I am single and not in a relationship currently. I am 38 going on 39. I am not eligible for any studies in the fertility clinic, which is maddening to say the least. Let me tell you about myself.
I'm 5'3" with brown hair and eyes that have a little bit of hazel in them but are mostly very brown. I am a high school graduate, and I have attended business school and made it all the way thru to the end. I live in Minnesota, and I travel south in the winter on the bus. I love buses and cars, but I hate to fly. I have fears, but mostly it is just too irritating to me with all the security now.
I have wanted children ever since childhood, and I always tell my girlfriend or boyfriend at the time when we are dating that it is what my main interest in life is...hence why I am still single. You would think a woman would want a baby besides me, but so far no takers, because they say two woman can't have a baby. Well they are correct. It hasn't stopped my desire though to have a baby of my own.
I am wanting to do home insemination no physical contact at with donor. I am willing to go to a sperm bank if need be, but I prefer this way, as it is the less expensive, and more personable way instead of clinical.
My sisters both have children between the ages of 2-22. My brother's girlfriend had a baby last year. Help make my desire a reality. I love children. I am educated. I am unwilling to travel. You can ship the sperm via dried packed ice in a specimen coup to me. I am a god believing individual. I wish to be a mommy in this life so much.
I work for a living, but I am able to take the responsibility now and for a few years back to raise a child(ren) on my own, and when the right woman or man comes along we can raise the child(ren) together. I need no financial support in exchange I am willing to let you visit Christmas time, birthdays, and the 4th of July. For more information contact me at Trjomml1@aol.com. Serious Inquirers Only!!!
I am a known donor. Being a donor has enriched my life tremendously and I wish to help another couple or single woman conceive a child. I have been a donor in the past. I think that allowing the child to know me is a healthy aspect of being a known donor.
I love the outdoors and also enjoy playing sevral sports. I Love animals and volunteer at an animal shelter walking dogs. I have always been a huge fan of renewable energy and look forward to buying my own solar panels and wind turbine one day. I have a green thumb and like getting my hands dirty.
Please understand this is very serious to me and I dont take any of it lightly. So if you would be so kind to have thought deeply about conceiving via a known donor and what that all entails, I would be very thankful. It doesn't hurt to also have done some research and have been or are currently tracking your ovulation. It makes a HUGE difference. I can and have traveled as long as the expenses are covered by the recipient. I also encourage talking to me via telephone as it helps me get to know you and gauge where people are at in the process. Thanks for understanding. peace and health, T
I am a 20 year old Lesbian woman, looking to start my family.
I am financially secure, with a loving, and supportive family.
I am looking for someone close, so that this may happen quite quickly.
I am open to answer ANY and ALL questions.
Thanks!
Michaela
We are a loving couple in search of a healthy well balanced man to aid in the creation of our life long desire to have a child of our own. We are relocationg to Fl. and are open to a donor either in Ohio or Florida.
We are a lesbian couple of 30 and 31 who are looking for the right someone to Co-Parent with and complete our family. We live on the South Coast of NSW in the midst of sandy sapphire beaches and rolling green 'sound of music' hills in a beach house with our animal children! We are both working professionals- a special needs teacher and a real estate agent and we have been together for 4 1/2 years. We are excited and committed to the prospect of having children to share our life and our love with, and are open to the idea of Co-Parenting with a gay single or couple who share the same values.
We are looking for you to be well balanced, intelligent and easygoing with a passion to experience all life has to offer. While this feels strange posting an ad to a stranger about something so personal, being gay in this world and wanting to be a parent can be a difficult prospect - and ours, while not a traditional journey, will be no less intimate for any of us.
We definitely want to make sure the donor we choose will be the right one for us, and our child/ren as we want to facilitate the best possible life- with 3 or 4 (if you have a partner) people who love them more than anything. For this reason we would like a chance to get to know you and discover if you are right for us and vice versa. We envision a gay 'family circle' where we all share in the child/rens life and each others. (We would also consider a donor only option if you were the right person but could not facilitate a constant commitment to being in the child's life.) So if we sound like two people you would like to get to know better and discuss what you had in mind with regard to involvement, email us (a pic would be nice!)If not, good luck on your journey! :)
I am looking for a sperm donor to help me get pregnant... physically and mentally in excellent health (no STD's!!) - a nonsmoker, and use no drugs - height/weight proportionate - have no genetic diseases running in the family - responsible, dependable, and able to keep a commitment...
He will be needed from about November 1, to the 7th .. Will know more end of October .. If not pregnant in November, then the same until I am... I will have full custody of the child and plan on a home insemination without any physical contact.
I'm looking for a man with good genes and a healthy background. If you're interested in helping me out, reply with your vitals and an actual picture of yourself.
I am a 33 year old newly single lesbian. My dream has to always been a mom and my ex partner and I tried for awhile, resulting in one miscarriage. I know I can get pregnant, and at first I used the sperm bank, but now i am looking for a known donor. I would also consider co-parenting, would like to talk about it. Thanks so much for considering me.
We are a mature, professional lesbian couple seeking to start a family. We are both insured and working. We have a cute little home in Michigan, as well as 4 furry babies.
ME: 6ft., brownish hair [was blond color when young - see pics - which show me in mid-20's - current ones available when you e-mail]; greenish [were once blue] eyes, 180lbs, 54 [act lot younger - never properly matured], bi/gay, Oxford graduate [I'm of Celtic parentage], usual 'arty' interests - cinema / theatre / galleries / travel, Mediterranean food and wines [but non-smoker]; not really sporty type but enjoy some mountain-biking (and always cycle/walk when in NYC); favourite novelists Iris Murdoch / early (later stuff too formulaic) Patricia Cornwell / Jose’ Saramago; musical preferences range from Monteverdi to Marc Almond and Philip Glass. Dry sense of humour. Currently on a kind of Sabbatical (previously worked in international organizations in legal advice / management fields). Have a small place in the South of France which would be good for summer holidays when the children are older. (Parents / all grandparents all lived to mid or late 80s so no reason a priori why I shouldn't see children well into adulthood.) Currently living in the S. of France with occasional visits to US. Totally healthy. Not in a relationship.
YOU: Positive outlook; intelligent; at least University education; probably working in some sort of creative and/or professional field, financially secure; could be single or in a relationship, but welcoming of my involvement in the children's upbringing and also definitely wanting at least two children [I have a view that children should grow up with at least one brother or sister.] You probably live either East or West Coast, or maybe Europe. You are open minded enough not to mind the idea of an 'older' father ( you might even see the advantages - there are some...)
THE IDEA: You would be the custodial parent of the children but I would get to visit for at least a couple of months of the year and as they get older the children would come to stay with me for roughly half of school vacations [assuming they wanted to]. In other words a ‘friendly divorce’ type of arrangement. I would make sure they had a good time and you would get a rest from constant parenting. I would want a say in their education - I would especially want them to get a good musical and bilingual education from an early age. Obviously situations can change as time goes on and children's inclinations count for a lot but these are my broad-brush ideas. People say I relate well to children. Quite a few friends (seeing me with their children) have said 'you would make a good father'. It would be crucial that you and I would get on well together even though we didn't want to live together / be around one another for more than a couple of months of the year. Actual insemination would be with syringe (in case you were worried....) (or maybe through IUI if you prefer ?) . Please e-mail me if you are at all interested to discuss this further, in complete confidence that I will exercise [and expect] total discretion and total confidentiality around these exchanges. Please write FULLY ie with as much detail about yourself and your 'project' as you read here about me and mine. Pix (to exchange) and full details about you / your ideas essential. [Thanks for reading so far. Wishing only good things to all of us aching to become parents......]
E-mail: jonblane [ at ] hotmail dot com
Sujet: Mec ado [54 ans] recherche copine pour projet de coparentalite': Mec ado [54 ans],franco-britannique, [qui veut e'ventuellement s'installer dans le Languedoc ] recherche copine/s pour projet de coparentalité de deux enfants dans relation genre peut-être ‘divorce amicale’. Bonjour à toutes et à tous. Ou commencer ?? Je nourris depuis trop longtemps ce grand désir de devenir et être père de deux enfants [deux parce-que je pense que l’enfant a besoin d’un[e] petit[e] frère ou sœur pour grandir avec]. J’ai commencé à mettre des annonces il y a longtemps mais avec le travail [juriste / administrateur] je n’ai pas suivi le ‘projet’ avec assez d’assiduité. Maintenant je viens de quitter le travail pendant un ou deux ans ‘sabbatiques’ donc plus d’excuses / auto-exculpation.
I am an experienced, successful sperm donor living in the Seattle area. I'm late 30's, blue eyes, light brown hair, 6'2", 190 lbs. I'm a divorced father of three lovely daughters. I'm well educated, intelligent and healthy. I don't smoke or use any drugs. I've been recently tested and am drug and disease free. I've made three successful donations in the last two years giving a beautiful baby girl and two baby boys. The baby will be your child, and I do not want any involvement in your child's life. My picture is available on request.
You must have medical insurance and the resources to take care of a child. I do not ship, so you must be able to travel to Seattle. I have regular business travel to Los Angeles so it may be possible to make donations in LA as well.
Loving lesbain couple of 6 years ready to start a family. We loving and caring and love to spend time with each other we are very stable and can afford a child. Looking for a Caucasian male that is willing to give over all rights as we are not looking to co-parent with anyone. Need someone that is d/d free and can prove it also someone with a healthy background. Looking for this to happen soon. Thanks in advance!
The Alstons
Hello, I'm a 32-year old attractive African-American lesbian currently in the Tulsa area (willing to relocate if needed). I am seeking a nice guy to become a sperm donor only or co-parent depending on the situation. I am financially stable, well educated, and very excited about the possibility of having children. It is long overdue and maybe you can help me achieve this goal. Financial and legal responsibility is optional but not required. Serious inquiries may contact me at oneshenita@hotmail.com. I am open to all races and sexual orientations (drug/disease free please).
I am looking to be a loving dad and co-parent with someone in the immediate NY metro area / long Island. I am a 34 year-old single gay male of British and Italian descent. I am a NYC public school teacher in Brooklyn, healthy (eat right and exercise), drug and disease/std free and looking for the same in a white female who is looking for a loving co-parent and interested in a joint custody arrangement. I own a 2 bedroom apartment in Freeport, Long Island with a loving and supportive family nearby.
I am looking for someone who is financially stable, financially responsible and financially and emotionally independent who can evenly share all child-related expenses and share the joys of parenthood. If you fit that description, I'd love to hear from you.
